It occurred to me this week that the phrase “Please allow me to apologize,” is not really an apology. Rather, it is a request for permission to apologize. When someone uses this phrase, be careful that you do not allow the pseudo-penitent to get away without actually apologizing once you grant him or her permission to do so. In fact, you should state explicitly, “You may apologize,” and then wait with an earnest and sincere expression on your face.
Do not be surprised if not everyone finds this as amusing as I do.
mw
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